Full video: https://bit.ly/2ZQXVLE
Are you mf’s still quarantining or has your state opened up and you’ve ventured out? Florida is about to be shut back down again so I thought I’d make a video talking about all the ways you can SAFELY get nasty while you’re isolated! Whether you’re going di...
2020-07-07 21:55:30 +0000 UTC View Post
To finish off the June takeover, ab (@muchobanksy) provided us with a brief and relaxing guided meditation!
ab is a non-conforming queer Black and Salvdorian healer. They’re a deep advocate for complete self-sustainability. Born out of Oakland, California they embody the heart of the Black Panthers -- freeing...
2020-06-30 22:19:30 +0000 UTC View Post
Ask me anything, for July! Leave questions in replies.
xoxo
2020-06-30 14:08:23 +0000 UTC View Post
Soo so excited to show y’all this video by Dr. Jennifer (@decolonizingtherapy)! She’s a therapist dedicated to Decolonizing therapeutic spaces (and therapists) and she digs into why we need to politicize and decolonize our wellness and mental health practices, in order to dismantle systemic oppression and...
2020-06-26 23:30:53 +0000 UTC View Post
Peep this q&a around the importance of harm reduction, mutual aid and care work!
1. What do you mean by mutual aid and care work?
2. What is harm reduction? Why is it particularly important right now?
3. Why have alternative care models, like mutual aid organizing, becoming more popular during the COVID-19 pandemic?&nb...
2020-06-23 22:03:43 +0000 UTC View Post
An amazing piece from August about showing up AND OUT for Black trans folks - investing in and including Black trans folks in your futures and daydreams about abolition and peace. See attached for the piece.
Rooted in St. Mary's County, Maryland, August Clayton (he/they) is a 22 year old writer, speaker, organizer and Black trans man committed to the survival and...
2020-06-16 19:12:56 +0000 UTC View Post
Tiara Gendi is a Human Rights defender and Trans Activist with...
2020-06-12 18:41:06 +0000 UTC View Post
To kick off the June takeover, "26 Ways to be in the Struggle Without Being in the Streets." Brought to you by the wonderful @Ejeris, @possiblesubject, 2020-06-09 23:36:16 +0000 UTC View Post
For the entire month of June I’m passing the mic to Black organizers and healers!
Here’s what the Patreon takeover will include:
For July I'm finna chat with my Momma about what it's like to be my Momma LMAO What yall want me to ask her? She's down to answer questions about being a mother to a Sex Worker, being a fucking colonizer lol, childhood stories of a young Raquel, WHATEVER!
Drop your questions in the replies and we'll pick our favorites!
This will drop in July and will be av...
2020-06-07 21:08:18 +0000 UTC View Post
Yerrr! I wanted to re-post the live stream I did with Shelah as a bonus! I answer questions about navigating sex and intimacy during this quarantine shit. We talk about digital fucking, how to "keep things spicy," how trauma impacts our sex drive and more!
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!
Head over to the tiers page and choose...
2020-05-29 02:25:43 +0000 UTC View PostYear! This month I answering the following questions:
1. What is your favorite porn to consume for yourself?
2. How do you navigate yourself as a therapist when you have clients who come from different cultural backgrounds and therefore may have a more conservative mentality/approach than you?
3. How do I talk about my sexual needs with a casual sex partner ? ...
2020-05-25 23:04:12 +0000 UTC View Post
For this month's live stream @Rackstoriches and I sat down and talked about money! It was so insightful - this might be the first time I went back and watched a live stream to take my own notes!
We talked about budgeting, saving/investing, trauma and money, finding a Sex Worker-friendly account...
2020-05-24 17:03:07 +0000 UTC View Post
It’s that time of the month. Ask me anything!
2020-05-17 22:57:08 +0000 UTC View Post
May is National Masturbation Month — fap CITY in this hoe!! So it’s time we chat about self-pleasure and all its benefits.
Full video: https://bit.ly/3dog7RV
xoxo
2020-05-05 18:30:21 +0000 UTC View Post
Hiiiii so uhm, in place of a live stream for April I made a video showcasing my favorite books. Lil poetry, lil vagina art, some trauma info, etc. - I give yall a nice variety of options! Tap in :)
Full video here: https://bit.ly/2zHhyMP
xoxo
PS: May's live stream is already booked, ...
2020-05-01 23:03:41 +0000 UTC View Post
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2020-05-01 02:36:49 +0000 UTC View PostFor this month's Q&A I answered the following questions:
•what are some ways to rebuild trust and closeness after infidelity?
•what does the process of emotionally cutting ties look like?
•what are your views on and how do you identify a "love addiction?”
•I still find myself needing attention and romantic love from men even though I tell myself I don't nee...
2020-04-27 17:49:27 +0000 UTC View Post
Yerrr! Here's the recording for March's live stream where the brilliant Da'Shaun Harrison and I discuss fat phobia & Sex Work. Really great convo, thank you everyone for attending!
Here are a few of the questions we answered:
1. How does anti-fatness affect how we (sex workers) engage clients?
2. H...
2020-04-24 22:36:36 +0000 UTC View Post
Ever been to a swinger's club? Here's my story about taking a nigga to one on our first date LMAO
Link: https://bit.ly/3cC0FS3
xoxo
2020-04-22 23:21:51 +0000 UTC View Post
This month I sat down with my best friend, community organizer, dedicated advocate for Black trans people and co-host of Discourse, Eli! We talked about “healthy” relationships and all the ways we be out here moving fucked up lol and, of course, ...
2020-04-22 17:04:23 +0000 UTC View Post
This is survival writing.
I typically have really well thought out topics to write about – this month, I don’t. I have no motivation, tbh. So, I’m writing for survival. Survival in terms of managing this self-isolation and still creating. Something that helps ground me and keep me sane is visualizations. It’s strange because they equally take me out of my body into another w...
2020-04-20 23:31:50 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey! Reply with questions for April's #AskRaquelSavage q&a - you can ask me anything you want and I'll choose 3-5 questions to answer!
Answers will be posted in audio format next week on Third Base and up.
xoxo
2020-04-15 22:28:27 +0000 UTC View Post
This month for a bonus I’m sitting down with Eli of Discourse to chat about healthy relationships. Or “healthy” relationships. Or “what the fuck even is a ‘healthy’ relationship?” LMAO
What questions do you have for us? What should we explore around this subject? Drop your questions in the comments, we’re ...
2020-04-08 21:43:52 +0000 UTC View Post
How are we managing? I'm lowkey losing it so I thought I'd make a video dropping some tips for somewhat keeping it together LMAO grab some wine or something, let's do this together. SHIT IS GETTING REAL!
Link: https://bit.ly/2UOTrUA
Just realized I totally forgot to add the pod mapping link! Pod mapping was crea...
2020-04-07 17:02:22 +0000 UTC View Post
Let’s first define awareness as your ability to notice a (sensory) signal – things you smell, hear, feel, etc. For example, when you are concentrated on something you become unaware of what’s going on around you – while completely engrossed in a project, you register little else including sound. However, unless you literally cannot hear, you know that you can rely on sound to s...
2020-03-30 23:02:02 +0000 UTC View Post
This month for Hoe Tales me and Nas did a special episode :) We got DUMB ASS fucking lit (drank a whole bottle of nasty ass tequila) and told some of our fav WHORE stories lol including how we met and our most recent yacht day!
Click here to watch the full episode: 2020-03-29 19:26:29 +0000 UTC View Post
This month, in collaboration with Da'Shaun Harrison, every topic on my Patreon revolved around the body. For the #AskRaquelSavage q&a, I specifically answered questions haveing to do with trauma and the body.
1. What is the best way to unpack sexual trauma that you or your partner may have? How can you set th...
2020-03-27 17:26:47 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's February's live stream recording! We covered erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Typically this convo is geared towards older penis-owners however, penis-owners of any age experience both of these things.
Click here to watch: https://bit.ly/2TYBbI4
We discussed:
- What is ED and ...
2020-03-18 17:39:45 +0000 UTC View Post