PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Why do women take things personally?
Added 2024-06-19 00:00:03 +0000 UTC
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@E C - Pain is in the very NATURE of growth -- if you don't feel any (or consciously seek to avoid it), you're likely doing it wrong. Men have always known this INTUITIVELY. Matriarchies, despite their natural connection to labor and childbirth, often have to (RE)LEARN it.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-24 04:50:59 +0000 UTC@E C - Well that's about the SADDEST thing I think I've EVER heard you say.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-24 03:35:08 +0000 UTC@E C - Whatcha gonna do until then? Punt or bunt? Or will Xena (or Gabrielle maybe?) still try to "make a difference", even if it is only to herself?
Joseph Omega
2024-09-24 03:15:33 +0000 UTC@E C - I see why you deleted your very last post: Until now, you have always said that you were here ONLY for "research". But it seems as if you REALLY wanted to "make a difference in Patreon" after all. I wonder what was the difference you REALLY wanted to make. It is also interesting how you, like Xena Warrior Princess in the final episode, seem a trifle regretful of all the potential hurt that you may have caused, and hope your possible victims can now be "much safer" with your passage. Catharsis CAN often be very healing.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-23 18:59:37 +0000 UTC@E C - Not for long though. I think this thread has run its course.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-23 02:49:46 +0000 UTC@ E C - Whoa! You CAN read my mind! 😲
Joseph Omega
2024-09-23 02:37:37 +0000 UTC@E C - Well, the FEMININE ones at least.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-23 01:46:07 +0000 UTC@E C - But I have long said that men ARE pick me's for women, almost by evolutionary design. That is what COURTING is all about. However, as human females possess more traits OBVIOUSLY associated with sexual selection, it can be argued that THEY are the ones more aligned with the role of "pick me's" than males, albeit passively. Go figure.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 22:40:30 +0000 UTC@Eric Linen - This suggests a MUCH wider definition of the term than I have grown accustomed, but understandable -- can one be a "virtue signaler" and NOT be a simp? Oh yeah, almost ALL of Keira's commenters are unabashed simps.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 22:19:51 +0000 UTC@E C - Yeah, "research". Riiiiiight. 🤫
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 22:13:22 +0000 UTC@Joseph - Yes! There are male and female simps, and people are simps for people of the same sex. There are some commenters who are simps for AG, but it is rare. If you want to see simp commenters, look at Keira Llotan’s comment section. It’s mostly simps. Make a critical comment or a comment of substance there, and the simps may attack you. Female simps for other females: check out Manifestelle.
Eric Linden
2024-09-22 21:57:06 +0000 UTC@E C - Ah, but my definitions DO help you, it seems.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 21:09:12 +0000 UTC@Eric Linden - Indeed, they "virtue signal". But would a male who does so for OTHER males also be called a "simp"?
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 20:59:35 +0000 UTC@E C - "I try not to worry about what others do" How's that working out for you?
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 20:57:03 +0000 UTC@EC - People have different ideas of what nice and kind mean. A simp is not just someone who is kind or nice. A simp is someone who sucks up to someone else. I see simps in comment sections all the time. They don’t say anything of substance. They are only telling the creator how wonderful they are.
Eric Linden
2024-09-22 20:51:07 +0000 UTC@E C - Seems like Feminists have defined the rules of engagement in their gender war for the rest of us. Makes sense really, seeing as they initiated hostilities in the first place. The poll results suggest I'm not alone in my assessments.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 20:27:15 +0000 UTC@E C - Both sides tend to "blame the other for everything" and "dunk on them for no good reason". No real news there -- it's the rules of your gender war. 💁♂️
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 08:07:33 +0000 UTC@E C - But didn't YOU say "Woman feel more sympathy for other woman than any man ever will". Or are you saying here that "real men" feel sympathy for other men? Even then, "real men" tend to be horrible at "virtue signaling", a.k.a. being "nice". But, as I said, they're MUCH better at the follow through, a.k.a. "duty" aspect. And, who is the "we" in "WE can feel bad for someone who is hurt, that doesn't mean WE take on their feelings." I'm tempted to say "Kemosabe" here, but I shall hold my tongue, as I suspect you're referring to women. PS. I don't really know what poll you're referring to.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-22 08:01:45 +0000 UTC@E C - Correct, confident men just feel duty and indulgence at best, and pity at worst. SIMPS feel sympathy, or at least VIRTUE SIGNAL it.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-21 22:16:11 +0000 UTC@Eric Linden - That would be consistent with their respective evolutionary personalities.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-21 22:13:28 +0000 UTC@Eric Linden - "Revolutionary" versus "Evolutionary" adaptation. I LOVE it! I hope it's not patented! 😃
Joseph Omega
2024-07-26 17:46:20 +0000 UTCThat certainly is atypical.
Joseph Omega
2024-07-25 03:33:24 +0000 UTC@Joseph What Western cultural narcissism? What hubris, relative to other cultures? Where did you grow up & what is your ancestry?
RhodiumMaiden
2024-07-19 16:04:43 +0000 UTCExponential!
RhodiumMaiden
2024-07-19 16:03:31 +0000 UTCI’ve only had the opposite experience of the man taking things too personally. Fortunately only once & never again!
RhodiumMaiden
2024-07-19 16:00:41 +0000 UTC@Roger Hayden - It is POSSIBLE that a little "discomfort" may be what's needed. Remember: "Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times."
Joseph Omega
2024-06-26 06:39:17 +0000 UTCComparison is the thief of joy (speaking about the woman in the first clip). All men need to put themselves first and then set clear boundaries in the relationship. Men on a biological level are simply not equipped to deal with a woman's complex emotions. We're better at building and destroying than nurturing. Entitled women need to understand that they'll be single if they don't add more value to a man's life than another woman would.
Eric Andreas
2024-06-22 00:53:04 +0000 UTCThe girl asking when her turn will come? She seems a bit serious and not fun. That would be one reason to avoid her. Second, it would not be far fetched to assume that she would have demands, like money. Why is it that most women in the US instinctively "feel" that men still should provide and protect, even when most women today can do it themselves? US labor statistics indicate that 80 percent of workers' annual incomes are just under $50,000, not enough for 2 people to comfortably live today.
Roger Hayden
2024-06-21 13:43:37 +0000 UTCMy partner Emily is a therapist ;)
Alexander Grace
2024-06-20 02:00:49 +0000 UTCMen should not see female therapists: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8P1uZHiLq3s&list=WL&index=3 In my opinion, women also should not see female therapists.
Eric Linden
2024-06-20 01:23:44 +0000 UTC@Eric Linden - Smack on! UNFORTUNATELY any widespread acceptance of therapy and better parenting are largely DEPENDENT on the culture, so the "West" is in a unique CATCH-22. What I like to say is that "The West is shooting itself in the foot" in a series of binds, a MAJOR one of which is its self-destructive "Gender Civil War". Some call them its "Karma" or "Kismet", while others, less kind, call them its "comeuppance" for cultural narcissism and hubris.
Joseph Omega
2024-06-19 20:12:54 +0000 UTCEvolutionary psychology. Women used to want to be a character in Mr. Man’s life. He was the leader. He was the main character. In just a few generations, she has replaced him as the main character. The culture has changed. And it has changed how we do parenting. Therapy and better parenting can help, but can they change the culture?
Eric Linden
2024-06-19 17:45:10 +0000 UTCThe way girls and boys are raised has not changed at an “evolutionary” pace these past few generations. Instead, it has changed at a “revolutionary” pace. This has resulted in changes in behavior that are not sustainable, and may cause society to fall apart. Small bumps in the road can result in positive change. When the entire road falls apart, chaos may be the result.
Eric Linden
2024-06-19 14:06:30 +0000 UTC@Hyperion - Women have been receiving "underserved attention" since the dawn of time -- social media has just codified, legitimized and proloferated it to unprecedented levels. And since they are, by evolutionary nature, highly susceptable to "social contagion", the relentless advancement of technologies that facilitate this phenomenon (since the printing press and even before) just makes their unchecked self-centeredness and entitlement the more pronounced. And you are right: There will likely ALWAYS be a horde of "thirsty men" to feed the insatiable beast -- maybe not an "endless" supply, but a supply that women can easily be indoctrinated to believe is endless: The 10% "Chads" and 10% "simps", in their enthusiasm, are more than enough to sustain the fantasy.
Joseph Omega
2024-06-19 12:26:26 +0000 UTCStop giving women undeserved attention; it corrupts them in the worst way possible. Women get validation through attention; it is as addicting to women as porn is to men. Surplus of attention leads to entitlement and solipsism. Problem is there will always be a horde of thirsty men giving women endless supply of undeserved attention, thanks to social media.
Hyperion
2024-06-19 09:00:55 +0000 UTCIn short, we are talking about breaking generational trauma and rising above normalized bigotry. The choice seems simple. You can either feel sorry for yourself and give up or… Be your own hero.
Mark Bryski
2024-06-19 07:41:42 +0000 UTCThis video would've saved me about 17 years of pain.
Jason Belle
2024-06-19 03:07:24 +0000 UTC
